Day 9 Dec 10th

Today Saturday I went shopping with the family! It was a freaking blast we went and bought all these toys for Gia's birthday / xmas coming up! I had a really good time. Not sure I gave back to my self today but I did give back to my time spent with the family. I often feel like I neglect my child because I have a problem balancing family, business and having a life of my own. It's a challenge and I want to be the best mom I can be but sometimes my "goals" get in the way and one of my goals is to be able to leave behind a legacy for my child so I have to push my self to break barriers of fear, doubt and worry. So in conclusion I believe I did give back to my self by giving time to my family and that makes me feel good!

SMOOCHES
XOXO
MOMMA MICKI

Day 8 Dec 9th

Stayed in and watched movies with my daughter Gia. It's not very often I get to just sit down and relax lol most of the time I go go go until I pass out at night. It was a great time we watch "Horrible Bosses" I know I know not the best for a child to watch but heck she is only 1 and didn't really watch it!

SMOOCHES
XOXO Momma Micki

Day 7 Dec 8th

Today I worked out; I think it's a great way to release some stress and get focused not only that but burning calories! Works great!

Smooches Micki XOXO

Day 6 Dec 7th

I'm wanting to do more then just giving myself material things so I'm wanting to add to this giving back to my self... I'm going to not only give my self gifts but I'm going to give back to my health, my mind, and my spirit. So today I gave back to my health buy eating my Under Cover Veggies on my dinner last night. 1/2 of teaspoon is equal to 5 servings of veggies... Give back to your health!!

SMOOCHES
MICKI XXOXOX

Day 5 Dec 6th

Tuesday.... Today I wanted to go shopping I even used a gift card I had :)) I bought my self some perfume "Juciy Viva" I love it! I'm so pick about smells but this is one of my favs!! 

SMOOCHES
XOXO
MOMMA Micki

Day four Dec 5

Today my body ached from the fun time I had Sunday lol not! I managed to make sure I did something for my self. I cooked a very unhealthy dinner since it was the first time in two days and it was amazing I even took ANOTHER bubble bath and did a face mask to top it off... I could get used to this, if anything I believe more women should give back to them self more I think it would cut down on the "ive lost my self" mode many women go into after having kids. Time flys when ur having fun stop take a breathe and relax sometimes take time for yourself!

SMOOCHES
MOMMA MICKI
XOXO

Day three....

Day three of giving back to my self.. This day was challenge for me as I was best friends with the toilet all night all I wasted to do was sleep and not feel sick all day I was trying to come up with something to do for my self... I must admit having a mindset of what should I do for me is very strange since every day for the past year has been about everyone else... The only thing I could think of was to take a very hot bath for the first time in over two years I took a bubble bath lol it was great! Enjoy the small things in life

SMOOCHES
momma micki
Xoxoxo

Day 2 of giving back to me!

Something about me is since I became a mom I have lacked in doing myself up daily even more so on the weekends u can forget about me looking cute. Lol im sure many of you been here... Well I used to never be seen w no makeup now its the complete opposite! Rarely seen w makeup.. There is something special about taking time to make ur self up it boosts confidence, builds an ego and just plain makes a women well most women feel good about themself well least it does for me. The reason im touching on this is because I read an article the other day about women who wear makeup and do themself up daily are proven to be more successful believe it or not and I see hoe this could make sense because they have confidence and to be successful you MUST have that! Well today I woke up at 5 am took a shower did my hair curly and put on makeup :) I DONT wear much but it sure did feel good to look nice that early in the morning!!

Today I gave back to my confidence!
SMOOCHES
Momma micki

30 Days of giving back to myself; Moms this is for you....

This past year or two I have been neglecting my self with me being a mom running a business and managing a family house hold I have been putting my self to the back burner! I am going to do 30 days of giving back to my self! I think it's very important to give to others but at the same time to avoid going crazy and getting depressed it's time to give back to your damn self!! The star player with in your self.... So follow me on my 30 days of giving back to my damn self....

Moms/ Parents this is for YOU!!


What are you doing for your self?!?!

SMOOCHES XOXO

MOMMA MICKI

Laws of power...

The 48 Laws of Power

1. Never outshine the master.
2. Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies.
3. Conceal your intentions.
4. Always say less than necessary.
5. So much depends on reputation. Guard it with your life.
6. Court attention at all costs.
7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit.
8. Make other people come to you; use bait if necessary.
9. Win through your actions, never through argument.
10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.
11. Learn to keep people dependent on you.
12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim.
13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interests, never to their mercy or gratitude.
14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy.
15. Crush your enemy totally.
16. Use absence to increase respect and honor.
17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.
18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself. Isolation is dangerous.
19. Know who you’re dealing with; do not offend the wrong person.
20. Do not commit to anyone.
21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker: play dumber than your mark.
22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power.
23. Concentrate your forces.
24. Play the perfect courtier.
25. Re-create yourself.
26. Keep your hands clean.
27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following.
28. Enter action with boldness.
29. Plan all the way to the end.
30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless.
31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal.
32. Play to people’s fantasies.
33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew.
34. Be royal in your fashion: act like a king to be treated like one.
35. Master the art of timing.
36. Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge.
37. Create compelling spectacles
38. Think as you like but behave like others.
39. Stir up waters to catch fish.
40. Despise the free lunch.
41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes.
42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter.
43. Work on the hearts and minds of others.
44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.
45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once.
46. Never appear perfect.
47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop.
48. Assume formlessness.